A Hope After Divorce

A Hope After Divorce

After Divorce Life Coaching for a Better Tomorrow

Coaching Disclaimer and Waiver

Coaching Disclaimer and Waiver All coaching services and communication, email or otherwise, delivered by Eugene Lee, (your “Coach”),  as well as information set forth on this website (test.ahopeafterdivorce.com) are meant to help you identify the...

What Others Are Saying About Eugene

John Loppnow“Eugene’s coaching comes with a wealth of experience and wisdom.  I would sincerely recommend him to anyone.”John Loppnow, LMFT (Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker)Peter M“Eugene listened to me with a truly caring and empathic...

Glad, You Are Here!

Welcome to A Hope After Divorce! I am glad you are here! The fact that you are here means that things have been pretty tough lately or that you want a better future for yourself...
Coaching Disclaimer and Waiver

Coaching Disclaimer and Waiver

Coaching Disclaimer and Waiver

All coaching services and communication, email or otherwise, delivered by Eugene Lee, (your “Coach”),  as well as information set forth on this website (test.ahopeafterdivorce.com) are meant to help you identify the areas in your life and in your thinking that may be standing in your way. However, coaching is not professional mental health care or medical care. If you feel psychologically stressed to the point that it is interfering with your ability to function, please seek the help you need in the form of mental health professionals. Coaching may augment your therapy, but the work of coaching is meant to be done when major emotional and psychological wounds are already healing or healed.

In that spirit, by purchasing coaching services from your Coach, you confirm that you have read and agree to each statement and that you wish to proceed:

  • I understand that the coaching services I will be receiving from my Coach are not offered as a substitute for professional mental health care or medical care and are not intended to diagnose, treat or cure any mental health or medical conditions. I also understand that my Coach is not acting as a mental health counselor or a medical professional.
  • I understand that coaching is, at present, an unregulated industry and that my Coach is not licensed by the State of California or any other state. 
  • I understand and agree that I am fully responsible for my well-being during my coaching sessions, and subsequently, including my choices and decisions.
  • I understand that coaching is not a substitute for counseling, psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, mental health care, or substance abuse treatment, and I will not use it in place of any form of therapy.
  • I understand that all comments and ideas offered by my Coach are solely for the purpose of aiding me in achieving my defined goals. I have the ability to give my informed consent, and hereby give such consent to my coach to assist me in achieving such goals.
  • I understand that to the extent our work together involves career or business, my Coach is not promising outcomes included but not limited to increased clientele, profitability, and or business success.
  • I understand that my Coach will protect my information as confidential unless I state otherwise in writing. If I report child, elder abuse, or neglect or threaten to harm myself or someone else, I understand that necessary actions will be taken, and my confidentiality agreement is limited in this capacity. Furthermore, if my Coach is ordered by a court to provide information or to testify, he will do so to the extent the law requires.
  • I understand that the use of technology is not always secure, and I accept the risks of confidentiality in the use of email, text, phone, Skype, Zoom, facetime, google hangout, and other technology.
  • I hereby release, waive, acquit and forever discharge my Coach, any agents, successors, assigns, personal representatives, executors, heirs and employees from every claim, suit action, demand or right to compensation for damages I may claim to have or that I may have arising out of acts or omissions by myself or by my Coach as a result of the advice given by my Coach or otherwise resulting from the coaching relationship contemplated by this agreement. I further declare and represent that no promise, inducement, or agreement not expressed in this agreement has been made to me to sign this agreement. This agreement shall bind my heirs, executors, personal representatives, successors, assigns, and agents.
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What Others Are Saying About Eugene

What Others Are Saying About Eugene

John Loppnow

“Eugene’s coaching comes with a wealth of experience and wisdom.  I would sincerely recommend him to anyone.”

John Loppnow, LMFT (Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker)

Peter M

“Eugene listened to me with a truly caring and empathic ear. He also helped guide me in figuring out what I want to do and what steps I needed to take towards that goal.”

Peter M.

Ken S

“Eugene was there to give me strength when I was struggling. He truly gave me direction and helped me to find joy again.”

Ken S.

Ben C

“Eugene has this gentleness about him that I feel he understands where I am in my life and what I am going through. I can go to him without hesitation.”

Ben C.

Greg P

“Eugene combines a calm and empathetic presence with a gift for seeing the big picture goals that help individuals move to the next step in their growth path.”

Greg Piken (Executive Pastor of Community Life)

Sang P

“In a world full of self-serving professionals, Eugene is truly a rare breed. He genuinely cares for you and empathizes with your pain. I never felt like I was just being talked to but in an honest healing professional relationship.”

Sang P.

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Glad, You Are Here!

Welcome to A Hope After Divorce!

I am glad you are here! The fact that you are here means that things have been pretty tough lately or that you want a better future for yourself and your family.

I would love to connect with you and coach you through the journey of life after divorce so that you will have hope and a better future.

To find out more, click start here.

F.A.Q

F.A.Q

What is a professional divorce life coaching?

Divorce is one of the most complicated and traumatic events you will ever face in your life. If you trouble with your taxes, you would find a CPA. You would not rely only on your friends to help with your tax problem. In the same way, divorce life coaching is a professional relationship, where you are working with an experienced professional who will work with you to focus on your future.

Life coaching is NOT a substitute for professional medical treatment, or counseling. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding any mental health symptom or medical condition. Never disregard professional psychological or medical advice nor delay in seeking professional advice or treatment.

What is the difference between coaching and counseling?

According to GoodTherapy, there are differences in a number of things:

“GOALS AND EXPECTED OUTCOMES

People typically see a therapist because they have symptoms of a mental health issue and want to feel and function better. Therapy also helps individuals by increasing insight and self-awareness by identifying the roots of issues and problematic thinking.

Coaching tends to focus on the present and future rather than the past. Coaches help people identify their goals and the obstacles they are facing. Like therapy, coaching involves guidance and support but also places a great deal of emphasis on accountability, enabling people to do more than they might on their own.

SCOPE OF PRACTICE

Therapists work with individuals with mental health conditions, substance abuse, relationship difficulties, trauma, grief/loss, and a wide variety of day-to-day challenges and struggles. A therapist’s training allows them to work with people who have severe mental health issues, but they also work with individuals who are highly functioning but want more out of life by utilizing coaching tools and techniques.

Coaches work with people who are basically healthy and functional but not reaching their full potential. Coaching almost always addresses an individual’s mindset and attitude by uncovering self-limiting beliefs and negative self-talk. A person being coached is assumed to have all the answers they need within them; the coach’s job is to facilitate the discovery of those answers by asking the right questions.”

* https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/whats-difference-between-therapist-life-coach-0823165

How do I know if I need counseling or coaching?

WHEN TO SEE A COUNSELOR

Counselors are trained to deal with mental illness. If you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, past trauma, anger issues, suicidal thoughts, and other mental health, behavioral and relationship problems, seek help from a therapist.

WHEN TO SEE A COACH

Coaches often target specific issues, like weight loss or financial management. They can usually help you learn skills to address those issues right now. You might learn how to budget or how to plan your meals.

Coaches may also help with certain aspects of mental health problems. For example, some coaches help people with ADHD get more organized. They may assist with time management and goal setting or they may assist you in clearing clutter.

* https://www.inc.com/amy-morin/whats-difference-between-coaching-therapy.html

Do I have to be a Christian to receive your coaching?

No. Divorce does not differentiate whether a person is a Christian or not and either do I. I am here to meet you where you are and to support and coach you toward a better future for you and your family.

What is the process?

Divorce can be a time when things are overwhelming and confusing. During the session, we will work together using the solution-focused method to find HOPE for the future:

  • HEAR – You will be heard. I will hear your situation to help you assess the problems that can lead to clarity
  • ORGANIZE – We will work together to organize your priorities and goals so that you can have a better future for you and your family
  • PLAN – We will come up with executable plans that would help you achieve your goals
  • ENCOURAGE – Everyone needs a little encouragement. We will work together to develop a positive future

Do you take insurance?

No. I do not take insurance.